my stream was too big, more than 1000 people, and i realized, i cannot use groups, i mixed everything up, and it takes time to enter, choose the group, and for some reason syntax with a_ids[]= did not work for me, and i decided just to remove most of my groups of people, and then add those i communicate with.
this will help me to communicate, i hope. may be i needed to remove more people, in order to make the stream maintainable and then only start adding from scratch, from zero. so when you get a message that i followed you, it’s not that i did unfollow long ago in the past, it’s because i indeed followed you. (:
if i don’t follow you, then i will, if we have some kind of connection. i want to make this diaspora useful, and indeed to be able to follow those i know, well i know on the internet, as people i’d like to socialize with, and not get a huge stream, when i never notice those whom i want to talk to.
and i’ll try to comment you. it’s hard. i need to convince myself to comment, when i know, i will say something stupid. just because the stupid comment will create a connection.