Իսկ դուք մտածում եք արտագաղթը հեշտ է՞։
Ու այս մարդը դեռ ամուսնացած է ԱՄՆ քաղաքացու հետ։
Պարզապես նրանից հետո, երբ դժվարությունները հաղթահարված են, մարդիկ չեն կարող ընդունել, որ այդ ամենը իզուր էր։
Ուշադրություն դարձրեք զարգանալու հնարավորության վրա, որը այս մարդը այդպես էլ չունեցավ Հայաստանը լքելուց հետո, հակառակը, սովորածը մոռացվել է։
Մի հատ անուն է նշվում տեքստում, փակել եմ աստղանիշներով։
Ես էլի ծանոթներ ունեմ ով գնացել են, ու ով ինձ ժամանակ առ ժամանակ գրում են։
Առանձնապես չի տարբերվում իրենց գրածը, այս տեքստը բավականին ընդհանուր է, ու շատերին է սազում։
Այսպես, իրականում շատ տխրեցնող նամակ՝
HI my friend,
Norik jan, vonce es? Kak Otto pohjivaet?
I do not know what kind of apologetic words I should use that you indeed forgive me for not writing back in time.
The life was really very challenging for me for a long while.
Starting from the fact that my staying in USA could be threatened because my Citizenship was under big question. I did something very wrong, which I did not know at that time. So, instead of having my CTZ received after 3-4 months of application, I had to hire attorney, and explain whatever happened back and fort , so they eventually understood that I was right, and they issued me my Citizenship, but it took me a lot of emotional distress and a long time for wait, almost a little more than a year.. that was this, and I did not really have heart for emails and writing letters, so, please, try to be understanding.
Also, at that time I was working at 3 jobs, , which did not gave me much opportunity to socialize, I was already so sick of working that much, and then my mother had heart attack and I had to fly to Russia to support her ( she is s fine now) but when I came back I realize that I lost one of the jobs . So, now I have just 2 jobs, one is that Interpreting like I did for several years for now, and the other is working at the store , doing shelving, this one is just 4 days a week, but stars 6 am until 6pm, and my responsibility is to move shelves in the grocery store, up and down, those heavy shelves, and restore all the objects which were on h the shelve. It is physically heavy job, because many times I have to move heavy laundry detergents too, and usually everything is timed. Even though we work as a team, it is still hard , but sometimes there is some conversation and some laugh involved.
I am working at this job long time already, but I am questioning, how long I will tolerate this.
Also, I go to school, 3 times per week, late evenings, I have classes, they are my pre-classes for my future big school. I want to do my Masters in Psychology, ( Marriage counceling) but since I forgot all what I learned in Armenia, I had to recollect and relearn. My Match is toughest, and as for my language and listening skills, they are much improved. I have to retest my TOEFL though because my last one, I failed the talking part. I hope my next TOEFL will be more successful.
OH, and I forgot to mention, that these two jobs that I am working, , I was doing that hoping to help my husband, since we are a team, as every married couple,
Our house was huge, 6 bedroom, really pretty and made me feel like at home because I did so much decorating and simply making it look pretty and also, ** himself, he built this house. Well, shortly, says, we could not keep up with mortgage, and had to give away. I went on short sale. Our almost half million house was short-sold to the bank at around 240.000.
Short sale means that we, home owners did not got ANY money. It was like a gift to the bank. So, new owners now there, redecorating, breaking my walls, and my floors, and changing everything, and every time I pass near, I feel my heart squeezes.
So, now I do not have a home. We are renting now, and will rent until we start to stand on our feet again, and start everything anew. I do not know if we will be able to buy another house again, time will show.
So, these and some other “small” issues were the reasons that I was kept away from joy of typing emails to people.
Now we are staring to settle a little bit in this rental place. It is not far from our house, just 10 min.drive.
այսքանը բավական է։
Այդպես էլ է լինում։ Նորմալ, կիրթ, ոչ բոմժ, նույնիսկ ՄՆ կիրթ ու ոչ բոմժ մարդկանց հետ ամուսնացածների մոտ։
Այնպես որ զգոն եղեք արտագաղթելիս։