i was among some people, they was selebrating smth, and they started to share their dreams. they also asked me, i refused. i thought that will be considered as humble. then one girl wanted to share her dream but stopped. i felt a little guilty, thought that may be if i would share smth, she would have more courage. i’ve talked about it with someone later, and he said, that to him, it looked not humble, but arrogant, to remain silent.