#help.tut Extra help for tutorials #define.stb On line legal dictionary TUTORIAL ON GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE Here are the grounds for obtaining a divorce in all 50 states and D.C. In this tutorial we have taken the State laws "on their face" and have NOT considered the fact that the laws may be in fact ignored. What do we mean? In many instances, especially divorce, the laws are simply not enforced. Especially if a state does not have "no fault" divorce if the parties desire a divorce, depending on the Judge and atmosphere the grounds may be waived, even though the law and pleadings may read otherwise. If a state is characterized as "no fault" it means that a dissolution can be obtained without regard to reason other than one sides unwillingness to continue in the relationship. In any event, except in cases where there are no children and no assets (or debts) a lawyer is a good idea in a divorce. If there are substantial assets, an attorney well schooled in divorce is a necessity. Finally, remember that although it is a nice idea for people, even divorced ones, to get along, during or after a divorce always remember in dealings with the "ex" that you have a JUDICIAL DECLARATION OF INCOMPATIBILITY. Watch your back. If you pay a divorce court ordered obligation (like support) always get a receipt. I cannot tell you in how many cases a party ordered to pay support paid it in cash but later if they got behind were whacked for anything that they could not prove had been paid. In many states, support or other obligations can be paid through an official repository. ALWAYS USE IT. Even if the "ex" needs the money now, don't give it-- always go through the repository ("Domestic Relations Program" or whatever.) They don't loose records. For each state we list the major grounds for divorce and the residency requirement. Quick tour through divorce residency. If you move from one state to another you can get a divorce in the new state once you meet the residency requirements. But, unless you are advised by an attorney that such a proceeding can determine custody or split assets, all it can do is get you a divorce. Need a divorce in a hurry? Move to the nearest no fault state. But remember, custody or property disputes may have to be heard back where you resided together. Yes, people still do shop around for a state to get a quick divorce. At the conclusion of the tutorial a list of states that limit remarriage after a divorce is provided. In some states, after a divorce either or both parties have to wait to remarry. On the other hand, there's always another state in which to hold the wedding (although that may anger the courts of the first state.) ALABAMA- Residency: 6 months. A large number of grounds are specified for a divorce; however, the most important grounds are "Complete incompatibility of temperament" or "irretrievable breakdown of the marriage." ALASKA: Residency: Parties may JOINTLY petition for a divorce for reasons of incompatibility; otherwise: 1) Adultery; 2) Conviction for a serious crime; 3) Incurable mental illness; 4) Post-marriage addiction to narcotics; (If you married a doper, you're stuck- this is silly); 5) Drunkenness; (Again, the bright folk in the legislature apparently think that if you married an alcoholic you deserve to continue to live with them- this is insane); 6) Desertion for one year; 7) Incompatibility. ARIZONA- Residency- 90 days; Ground for divorce is "Marriage is irretrievably broken." This is no fault. ARKANSAS: Residency- 60 days; There are a large number of reasons for a divorce, including: 1) Adultery; 2) Indignities to person; 3) Habitual drunkenness; 4) Desertion; 5) Nonsupport; 6) Felony conviction CALIFORNIA- Residency: Six months in state, three in the county; The state is a no fault state, grounds for divorce are either irretrievable breakdown of marriage or insanity. COLORADO- Residency: 90 days. Colorado is a no fault state, "irretrievable breakdown of marriage." CONNECTICUT- Generally one year residency; primary ground for divorce is "irretrievable breakdown of marriage"; other grounds include: adultery, willful desertion, mental illness requiring hospitalization for five out of six years. DELAWARE- Six moths residency; separation caused by incompatibility; voluntary separation. DISTRICT OF COLUMBIA- Six months residency; mutual and voluntary separation. FLORIDA- Six months residency; irretrievably broken marriage is primary ground, only other ground is mental incompetence of other spouse; true "no fault" state. GEORGIA- Six months residency; there are many grounds for dissolution, but statute provides for dissolution of marriage upon finding that the marriage is irretrievably broken. HAWAII- Six months residency; basic reason for divorce is that the marriage is irretrievably broken, "no fault." IDAHO- Six full WEEKS residency required; basic reason for divorce is "irreconcilable differences"; provided that court agrees that there are substantial reasons for the divorce. ILLINOIS- 90 days residency required; separation for six months ground for divorce, provided both parties agree; separation for two years; various grounds for misconduct. INDIANA- Six months residency in the state; three months residency also required in the county where the divorce is sought; grounds for dissolution are irretrievable breakdown; incurable insanity of one party; felony conviction. (No fault state.) IOWA- Unless both parties are residents, one year residency is required, if both parties reside in Iowa, no specific length of residency is required. Ground for divorce is if there is a breakdown of the marital relationship so that the marriage is destroyed. (True no fault.) KANSAS- Sixty days residency is required; grounds for dissolution are "incompatibility" and mental illness (true no fault.) KENTUCKY- 180 days residence required; ground for divorce is "irretrievable breakdown of marriage." (No fault) LOUISIANA- No specific residency requirements; grounds for divorce include adultery, conviction of a felony; after one year of separation, a divorce may be granted for irreconcilable differences. MAINE- Six months residency required; divorce may be granted for irreconcilable differences, provided that parties agree that the marriage is irretrievably broken. If one party disagrees, there must be professional counseling, then Court must determine if the differences are irreconcilable. Divorce may also be granted for adultery, extreme cruelty and other misconduct. MARYLAND- In most cases one years residence is required; grounds for divorce include: separation for 12 months with no chance for reconciliation; conviction of a felony with at least one year in prison served and other specified misconduct. MASSACHUSETTS- Residency: if a marital domicile in Massachusetts can not be established as of the time of the divorce one year residency; grounds for divorce include irreconcilable differences provided that both parties agree (divorce may then be granted in thirty days) and various misconduct. MICHIGAN- Residency of 180 days in state, 10 days in county. True no fault state; sole reason for divorce is that the "objects of marriage are destroyed." MINNESOTA- Residency of 180 days in state required; strict no fault state, sole reason for dissolution is that there is a "breakdown of the marriage." MISSISSIPPI- Residence- six months; provided both parties agree, divorce may be granted 60 days after filing due to irreconcilable differences; other misconduct grounds exist. MISSOURI- Residency- 90 days; No fault divorce, requiring that court agrees that the marriage is irretrievably broken. MONTANA- Residency 90 days; Marriage is to be dissolved if court finds that marriage is irretrievably broken; based on "evidence of serious discord." NEBRASKA- Residency of one year required, or, parties were married in Nebraska and one party has lived in Nebraska throughout marriage. Strict no fault state- ground for dissolution is that marriage is irretrievably broken. NEVADA- Residency of six weeks; Marriage may be dissolved if parties are "incompatible" or one spouse has been insane for two years. NEW HAMPSHIRE- Residency- One year is only one party is a resident of New Hampshire; no requirement if both parties are residents of New Hampshire. There are many grounds stated for divorce, most important is that there are "irreconcilable differences"; adultery is also recognized as a ground. NEW JERSEY- Residency- normally one year; grounds include: adultery, desertion, extreme cruelty, separation for 18 months. If both parties consent, a divorce may be granted without fault. NEW MEXICO- Residency- six months; grounds: incompatibility, abandonment, adultery (partial no fault.) NEW YORK- Residency- one year; grounds include: adultery, cruel and inhumane treatment; living apart pursuant to written agreement for one year. NORTH CAROLINA- Residency- six months; grounds for divorce include separation for one year. NORTH DAKOTA- Residency- usually six months; grounds include: irreconcilable differences, or adultery, cruelty or desertion. OHIO- Residency- Six months; grounds include- separation for one year, adultery, cruelty. OKLAHOMA- Residency- Six months; special rules also include that the divorce must be brought in the county where the other spouse resides, or, in county where spouse bringing the action has resided for 30 days. Grounds include abandonment, adultery, cruelty and incompatibility (no fault.) OREGON- Residency- six months or marriage occurred in the state, and residency at the time that the divorce is filed; ground for divorce is irreconcilable differences (no fault.) PENNSYLVANIA- Residency- six months; Grounds- if parties agree, a marriage may be dissolved 90 days after filing for irreconcilable differences; should parties not agree that irreconcilable differences agree, two year separation; fault ground include adultery, cruel and barbaric treatment. PUERTO RICO- Residency- one year or grounds for divorce occurred in Puerto Rico. Grounds- parties may agree to divorce; failing agreement, adultery, cruel treatment, or separation for two years. RHODE ISLAND- Residency- one year required under most circumstances. Primary ground is irreconcilable differences; numerous fault grounds also exist. SOUTH CAROLINA- Residency, if both parties reside in South Carolina is three months; in all other cases, one year; grounds include- adultery, desertion for one year, cruelty, addition to liquor or drugs. SOUTH DAKOTA- Residency- none is specifically required, must be resident of state at commencement and conclusion of case; grounds- irreconcilable differences (if both parties agree); adultery, cruelty, habitual "intemperance", desertion. TENNESSEE- Residency- if acts relied upon occurred in Tennessee, no specific length, in other cases six months. Grounds- upon agreement of parties, irreconcilable differences; waiting period of 60 days without children, ninety days with children. Otherwise, fault grounds include, adultery, desertion for one year; conviction of a felony; attempts on the life of the other habitual drug or alcohol abuse. TEXAS- Residency- 90 days. Grounds, if marriage is "insupportable" and there is no reasonable expectation of reconciliation no fault divorce may be granted; various fault grounds. UTAH- Residency- three months in both state and county. General ground is "irreconcilable differences", fault grounds exist. VERMONT- Residency- six months. Grounds- no fault if the parties have lived apart for six months, with no reasonable expectation that parties will again live together; fault grounds also exist. VIRGINIA- Residency- six months. Grounds for divorce- adultery, cruelty (but party must leave); one year separation or six months if there are no children; various other fault grounds. WASHINGTON- Residency- no specific requirement, party must be a bona fide resident at time of filing; "irretrievable breakdown" is sole ground; petition must be pending 90 days prior to granting divorce. WEST VIRGINIA- Residence- One year, or in adultery based actions, one party must reside in state; if parties married in state, and one party lives in state, no residency requirement. Grounds- irreconcilable differences (if both parties agree); or adultery, separation for one year; conviction of a felony; habitual use of drugs or alcohol; many other fault grounds. WISCONSIN- Residency- six months in state, one month in county; ground for divorce is that the marriage is irreconcilably broken; court will find this on agreement, or parties have not lived together for one year; or, court orders an attempt at reconciliation and after attempts one party persists in belief that the marriage is irretrievably broken. WYOMING- Residency- 60 days; sole ground for divorce is irreconcilable differences. The following states limit remarriage after a divorce: Alabama- 60 days in court's discretion North Dakota- Court has authority to specify terms Oklahoma- 6 months, or 30 days after appeal, whichever is longer. Oregon- 30 days or until appeal is heard. Texas- 30 days or court approval to remarry. Utah- cannot remarry during appeal. Virginia- cannot remarry during appeal.